我想請問北部結緍的禮俗, cos I am not Taiwanese but my finace is Taiwanese from Taipei. Both families live in oversea for many years. We will have 簡單 wedding in here. However some 禮俗, we must follow, right? On wedding day, they will come to my home to pick me up and then go to their home. What should I do and prepare for 出門 & 進門. From their information, when I go to their home, I just stay in my finace room and wait. Until time's up, then we go to register in the government office (we must do this procedure in here) that's.
For the 公婆禮 is typical taiwan's 禮俗? No one tell me this? Do I need to prepare?
Do I need to prepare 紅包 and for who?
Do I need to 敬茶 to his parents? If they don't ask for, is that right?
For the 嫁妝, when and what should I bring to his home?
Thank you for asistance!
Sorry I don't know who to type Chinese, but I can read in my computer. I
I think it depends on what both families require. It's not necessary for every one to follow every detail that people talk about on this web site. If his parents don't ask you to follow all of those details, how come you need to do all of them. For me, although I had a tranditional wedding, I didn't follow all, either. I just picked some that my and my husband's parents required. I think that's enough. Even some Taiwanese families don't follow all of the tranditions, nowadays. So, just take it easy.