I do not know is not my personal growth of the inherent habits of the beginning of each year at the beginning of the New Year, I will give myself to develop some growth plans, such as work plans, life ideas, learning goals, travel plans, financial planning and so on. These plans can not talk about how vigorous, not to mention the so-called big dream, but because of these sort of plan, actually feel that they have a year to run the goal and direction .
Because of this, these years, I feel like I get rid of laziness, regain confidence, but also to achieve a lot of small wishes.
For example, from 2009 to 2010, I plan to spend two years to accumulate funds to my parents in the house from home, perhaps because of the pressure to have the power of reason, I not only work very hard, usually as much as possible to save money , And later, I actually rely on their own work bit by bit accumulation and part-time writing manuscript fee, earned to the parents in the home from the small building of thousands of dollars, round their first dream after graduation, but also round A good wish for my parents to live.
2011, I told myself that this year in any case I have to use spare time to complete two or three small plans: fitness, test driver's license, travel. That year, I participated in a lot of physical exercise, the body has been very healthy, the whole people are full of youthful vitality, a whole year down even the cold is very rare. And work, fitness, I desperately practice car examination, in July, when I wish to use for three months time, completed the driver's license examination, as we have a few units with a driver's license of the female staff The And that year, I also honor their travel commitments, went to Xiamen, Guilin, the North Sea and other places to travel .
Later every year, I was so, almost no year to give yourself to develop some small plans. For example, in 2012, lasted five years of love long-distance running, I and Mr. intend to get married, so we choose in the picturesque Lijiang on hand wedding, so that the beauty of the landscape witness the moment and eternal. For example, in 2013, I feel that my work encountered a bottleneck, so I intend to quit, that year, after some preparation and efforts, I got the wish I have been eager to try a job.
Later time, year after year, time is changing, the plan is changing, but the same is that I always adhere to the plan, choose to start, never stopped footsteps. From the marriage and children, buy a car to buy a house, to try their own interests and so on, every realization of a small target, I have to cheer for their own cheer.
Perhaps this one is a small plan, the realization of small aspirations, seemingly modest, even in the eyes of many people, simply can not talk about what to achieve, but for me, it is because there is no generous family conditions , There is no inherent advantages of appearance, but nothing can be used outside the resources, so these bits have become valuable and valuable. They not only let me bid farewell to the low self-esteem, regain confidence, but also let my life really happened gratifying changes. And for a girl in the country alone, this time and again to achieve and transformation, like a tree of the foundation, even if it can not wanton bloom for a time, but also can work hard to take root until one day Deep roots, it will be able to breeze blooming.
I often say that making the plan is my own way to get rid of the most common lazy approach. Indeed, when I developed a plan, I put it in the most prominent position every day, to remind myself to go to achieve it, once I am slightly slack and lazy when I have a sense of inexplicable sense of self-blame Self-blame often prompted me to clenched his teeth, warned myself to insist, and again and again to adhere to the teeth, gave me a lot of unexpected good results.
This is probably why so many years I have been insisting on planning and choose the real reason for starting it, I do not want to let myself wasted years, muddy and messy through every day.
Speaking of which, I remember today there is a friend working in Shenzhen and I chat when talking about the Hunhunee this word. He said he went to work the first day of today, but I feel nothing to do, Hunhunee over a day, that life is not a little passion. I am joking with him, saying that you are disgusting with the leisure days, if you are too busy to fly up is not you very excited about it He said, he'd rather busy, so that there is no time to cranky, there is no time to worry, but no leisurely feeling of panic.
The truth is so, sometimes, we are idle down, began to cranky, the more you want the more sad, the more sad the more melancholy the more disturbed, and this mood once the cycle down, is not a good thing. So, I often tell myself, when they feel nothing to do leisurely time to panic, we must consider to find something to do their own, even if it is a small number of things, such as reading books, watching movies, The
These little things seem to be minimal, but gave us the goal and direction of running forward, and once the goal and direction of running, we fear the road longer ?
