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訂婚那天，媒人有事不能來時？
訂婚那天，媒人有事不能來時？該怎麼辦呢？可以不來嗎？
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訂婚那天，媒人有事不能來時？
訂婚那天，媒人有事不能來時？
dearㄚ萍~
訂婚那天是要媒人來主持儀式的
還要帶著妳一一對男方家人改稱呼
真的有很重要的事無法參加嗎?
再跟媒人商量一下吧!
加油ㄛ
訂婚那天是要媒人來主持儀式的
還要帶著妳一一對男方家人改稱呼
真的有很重要的事無法參加嗎?
再跟媒人商量一下吧!
加油ㄛ
媒人是我男友的嬸嬸啦，聽說是因為剛好那天他們市場要普渡???男友很生氣說：難道說普渡比我們的婚禮還要重要嗎？因為他們家跟叔叔嬸嬸有一點小問題，所以可能是故意的，早知道就不要找她當媒人就好了，可是他媽說如果不找嬸嬸，奶奶會生氣才找她的。唉~~~
Hi, dear,
Don't be angry or sad! Just tell your matchmaker (or let your mother-in-law tell her) that she's going to miss a great opportunity to earn a lot of money from your red envelope! Let her kind of feel sorry...and then, I guess she'll be back--if you can't replace this matchmaker.
Unfortunately, I had this problem as well, but my in-law just told her in the same way I told you, so she couldn't turn it down in front of my in-law (my mother-in-law asked my husband's aunt to be our matchmaker). You got that? Let the parents solve the problem instead of facing with it on your own. Cheer up and you'll know what to do!! Good luck! : )
Don't be angry or sad! Just tell your matchmaker (or let your mother-in-law tell her) that she's going to miss a great opportunity to earn a lot of money from your red envelope! Let her kind of feel sorry...and then, I guess she'll be back--if you can't replace this matchmaker.
Unfortunately, I had this problem as well, but my in-law just told her in the same way I told you, so she couldn't turn it down in front of my in-law (my mother-in-law asked my husband's aunt to be our matchmaker). You got that? Let the parents solve the problem instead of facing with it on your own. Cheer up and you'll know what to do!! Good luck! : )
ㄚ萍,
偶建議兩種作法:
1. 請奶奶作主，讓妳婆婆企告訴奶奶梭 ：嬸嬸訂婚不能企，沒有媒人，實在不知道訂婚要怎麼進行，而且費對女方不好意思。偶猜：奶奶費企強力主張嬸嬸不能缺席。
2. 請婆婆直接告訴嬸嬸：普渡粉重要啦！可是訂婚沒有媒人實在不行，要不然讓嬸嬸自己找ㄍ跟她一樣適合ㄉ倫代打來幫她賺紅包吧！嬸嬸大概不費願意跟別倫分紅包吧！
Gina
偶建議兩種作法:
1. 請奶奶作主，讓妳婆婆企告訴奶奶梭 ：嬸嬸訂婚不能企，沒有媒人，實在不知道訂婚要怎麼進行，而且費對女方不好意思。偶猜：奶奶費企強力主張嬸嬸不能缺席。
2. 請婆婆直接告訴嬸嬸：普渡粉重要啦！可是訂婚沒有媒人實在不行，要不然讓嬸嬸自己找ㄍ跟她一樣適合ㄉ倫代打來幫她賺紅包吧！嬸嬸大概不費願意跟別倫分紅包吧！
Gina
我訂婚時也是因為資訊交流的不足
發現原來的媒人竟然在我訂婚的前一天要去美國坐移民監
當場糗大
後來就換一個媒人擺平
媒人如果不行
就不要勉強他
家族裡一定有可以做同樣事的長輩
放寬心
發現原來的媒人竟然在我訂婚的前一天要去美國坐移民監
當場糗大
後來就換一個媒人擺平
媒人如果不行
就不要勉強他
家族裡一定有可以做同樣事的長輩
放寬心
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