婚前追我時完全不敢對我這樣,妳們的老公會這樣嗎?
我老公不會這樣對我。
你老公很愛他自己與沉迷你給他感受,因為他缺乏自信,所以眨低你來讓他自我感覺良好,這是一種精神虐待。
你還愛他嗎?你還想繼續跟他X年?沒有人是完美的,但他一直在嗆你。
當他嗆你的時候,我建議你直接離開。
如果他不能收斂嗆你的習慣,你可以收拾包包去享受一下不同的生活(順便請他搬回他父母的房子,請他父母再教育);回來後也許他會改變。
I am very happily married to a man who treats me with such respect, kindness and love.
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You husband loves himself and he's given to you because of what you give him. What you give him is a sense of power because he lacks self-confident and has to minimize you in order that feel better about himself. This is mentally abusive.
My question to you is do you love him? Do you see yourself with this man in the next X years? Not everyone is perfect but what he is doing is very jeering to you.
I suggest to you is leaving him and don’t look back when he laugh at you every times.
If he can’t change treat you with respect, you can try to pack your bag and goes and enjoy the difference life, and you will find your husband else who treats you as an equal. (And by the way, tell him to move back in his parents’ house so they can watch him grow up!)